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Fill out this form in it's entirety and write a thoughtful, succinct message at the end.  If you have references, list their names and e-mail addresses. If you've been to The Gates or a different house of Mistresses, you must list the name and e-mail address of the provider you saw. I love meeting newbies, and it's okay if you haven't seen a provider before -- however, a $40 application fee is required. Visit my FAQ page for details. 

I host sessions in person at a chic, modern play space in Oakland. Same-day sessions are out of the question.  

I love inviting other Mistresses to join my sessions! See my About page to find out who I love playing with. 

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I will not call or text you unless we have scheduled a phone conversation.
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I'll let you know when I plan to visit your city on tour.
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Include at least 3 specific activities you want to explore, past experience in BDSM, and the reason you want to see Me in particular.


No sex or sexual services are offered or implied. Sessions do not include any illegal activities and consist only of safe and consensual activities. Legal Notice: With reference to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155, the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration.