booking & Deposit

To request a session, fill out the form on my Session Inquiry page. For best results, succinctly express yourself in a genuine, considerate manner.

After reading over your application, I'll e-mail you to arrange a brief phone call so that I can get a feel for you. Expect to elaborate on your previous experiences and on your expectations for our time together. Checking references, scheduling a phone call, and interviewing you can take up to 2 hours of my time.  If you ultimately decide not to book, kindly send a $40 tribute for the time I took to vet you. Venmo @MsPhoenix (preferred) or Amazon gift cards are acceptable. 

If you are a newbie and/or do not have any provider references, I require a $40 application fee. You can send it along with your inquiry form via SquareCash $PhoenixEngracia, Amazon gift card, or Sephora gift card. This compensates me for the time it takes to vet you. If we end up booking a session, this deposit goes towards the tribute. If for whatever reason we do not end up booking the session or you cancel the deposit is forfeit. 


Ideally, if you cancel any session, you will send me 50-100% of the tribute. While not required, it is the most considerate route to take, especially for extended sessions and/or last-minute cancellations. These are my strict parameters:

  • 1-3 hour sessions have a 24 hour cancellation policy. If you sent a deposit, I will keep it if you cancel. If you reschedule the session within 2 weeks, I will apply the deposit toward the session. If you're a returning client and cancel with less than 24 hours notice, I will require 50% of the session tribute. When you book again, I will require a deposit as if you are a new client.

  • 3.5+ hour sessions have a 48 hour cancellation policy. If you cancel within 48 hours, I will keep the deposit. If you reschedule within 2 weeks, I will apply it to the session. For returning clients, I will require 50% of session tribute unless you reschedule within 2 weeks.

  • 6+ hour sessions have a 72 hour cancellation policy. 6+ hour sessions require a deposit, even if you've seen me before. Because I share studio space, it's difficult to book extended sessions without notice and sometimes can't be done within 2 weeks. If you cancel within 72 hours you forfeit your deposit, and 50% of tribute will be required in advance when you book again.



350 per hour for men

250 per hour for women

400 per hour for couples

Additional 100 for full toilet training

Bring tribute in an envelope and place it on the table as soon as you enter the play space. Gratuity, gifts, and champagne or fine spirits are lovely ways to express how thoughtful and earnest you are. I especially appreciate gifts that support my creative endeavors such as music equipment, photography equipment, and kitchenware. Learn about some of the things I enjoy on my Gifts page.

I am also open to shopping, dining, and concert-going with some lucky, generous submissives. I'm sure you'll agree, I'm a dreamy dominant date. The same hourly rate applies -- although I make an exception for generous shopping stipends of $1500 or more. Please be aware that although I offer dominant companionship, GFE is not on the table. 


Boundaries are what set us free! They are the scaffolding of S&M relationships -- wait -- ALL relationships!

If you require any of the following activities to get into sub-space, I encourage you to continue research on other lovely provider-goddesses in the Bay Area...

  • Sex/oral sex/GFE/anything ending in "job"

  • Touching/kissing my face

  • Touching me anywhere without my permission

  • Dominating me

  • Using toys on me

  • Complaining

  • Prying information regarding my personal life

It makes the whole world a better place to practice having good boundaries. Thank you for respecting mine as effortlessly as I do yours. 


No sex or sexual services are offered or implied. Sessions do not include any illegal activities and consist only of safe and consensual activities. Legal Notice: With reference to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155, the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration.